Sunday, June 27, 2010

In Limbo

Lately I've felt more subdued by the realization that Love is not a sure thing.

I've been in several relationships in the past- each having their own weight in "love" yet the one I'm in right now feels somehow in limbo. I don't know if I believe in true soulmates but I do believe in love, trust and respect- all qualities which are a must in order to make any relationship work.

I think there also needs to be compromise and similar interests/goals, be it in career, finance, or life goals such as marriage and kids in order to make any relationship successful.

So my question to the Universe is:

In any given situation, do you continue to love that person when you different goals than them? Where do you draw the line or compromise? If you do, when do you give in?

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

Second Chances

I've been thinking alot lately of second chances...what happens when they come into our lives. Is it a blessing or a curse? An opportunity or another hurdle? Depending on the circumstances from the previous experience, I assume that most people like second chances although some may not believe it them.

I think second chances come to you for a reason, its up to you whether or not to decide if you want to change anything and try something new or remain the same.

I've decided to embrace my second chance. Go with the flow and see what happens. And who knows? Maybe second changes could be a redeeming opportunity that is meant to be :-)